Boy's excuses.

There are so many things that guys say in order to avoid relationships it is actually ridiculous! I was hanging out with one of my close friend this weekend and she was telling me what this guy she has been talking to for a while told her about their situation. He actually said that he did not want to commit to a relationship because he was afraid to hurt her in terms of being not being faithful.However they have been dating for 8 month and actually went official for about two months. Guy are funny! If your feelings have changed just be honest do not sugar coat it! Also girls do not think that he is being sweet because he is thinking about the long term hurt you might endure if he does mess up.....because it is COMPLETE BS! I was very upset when my friend told me this because it made me feel like as if the guy did not respect her enough to just tell her exactly how he felt. Boys use all sorts of excuses like "it's not you it's me" or "i just cannot commit right now" and then you turn around and they are dating someone else! HORRIBLE