Interview: What about her?

Hello everybody, I have a great little post for you. I have interviewed one of my closest friends Mely on her love and school life. I have had the best experiences in life with this wonderful girl ^_^ but even after all our years of friendship, I still had a few curious questions.    :D

Here are the Questions!

Q: In your teen age years, how many official boyfriends have you had?

A:Well, I liked having relationships and I have hardly gone a long time without someone by my side. But the number of official boyfriends would have to be 5.


Q: During the course of school did you find it easy to juggle a boyfriend as well?

A: No, I always found it hard because they distract you so much and they cause so much drama as well. I always thought it was stupid but i couldn't help myself.


Q: Now that you are in college, are your views on relationships different then when you were in high school?

A: Of course! I have realized exactly what i want in a relationship and i now have higher standards than I did before. I actually have a list of qualities that I want and I am ready to receive this relationship.


Q: When was it when you lost your virginity? Did you regret it?

A: That is a hard question....I lost it when I was 16. I wouldn't say that I regretted it, it is more of the fact that it would have been nice to wait a little longer but I don't look back at it and feel sad.


Q: What is the one thing that you do not like about guys?

A: I absolutely hate the fact that they can just so easily kick their feelings for a girl that they once my have loved.


Q: What is the one quality that you like most about a guy?

A: haha I have one for personality and one for physical appearance. I like a guy who has great arms and can make me laugh!


Well there you have it! This is how my lovely Mely leads her life now.

 

SAD NEWS!

Hey everybody the interview had been postponed until tomorrow but my friend Will give us her love life experiences and her likes and hates about relationships ^_^

Tonight ^_^

I will have a special treat for you tonight :) at 9pm haha check it out please

Awwwww yes!

I decided to bring a second person into the mix and have scheduled an interview with someone that will be sharing with us her love life experiences haha so i will post it up for sure tomorrow and i hope you enjoy it ^_^

Why?!

Why is it that girls that truly respect themselves always luck out on guys. We either end up with weird guys or with the jerks. And all the nice cute ones end up getting their hearts broken and turn into jerks because of the other stupid girls. The dynamic of who wants who and who gets that person doesn't make any sense. But I have been told that these games get tiresome and that the good guys will turn up one day.

Be a mystery

The one things guys like is a challenge don't give yourself up do easy make him work for it. If he really likes you he would do anything to make you his :)

Finals advice!?

Well it's finals for a lot of you and it must be the hardest thing right now. No sleep and loads of coffee, monsters and what-nots. So my simple advice to you is F everything els and focus!!! Nothing and no one should be bothering you and bringing you down right now!!! Move everything els aside and get er done! GOOD LUCK TO YOU ALL

Don't be afraid!!!!!

To look at your horoscopes!!!! Both life and love. Everyone needs a little star telling from time to time <3

The feeling

The feeling of finding something or someone new is unexplainable. Here is a little fast advice.... Don't hide or run away from great opportunities because now I'd the time to make risky choices and to give them your all.

Live and laugh

Quick advice :) no matter what life puts you through..... The end will alway get better you just have to keep your head up :) this may be cliche but I had a feeling and a need to remind you all :D

Affection

well ill be honest i can't really show my emotions to a lot of people which tend to backfire when i am emotionally involved with someone. Thy obviously tend to want love and affecting, but i never learned how to show it. However, over the years i learned a few tricks to help me with it. For example before I didn't like physical affection (like hugging, kissing, holding hands). Then i began to learn that show your love for someone isn't a sign of venerability but strength. To be able to allow yourself the risk of getting hurt and continuing on welcoming the risk is something no one can do. I learned that life is all about taking risks and every relationship is as well. We can not allow ourselves to be afraid of anything that might bring joy to our lives, even if it was for a little while.


                                             

My Top Seven songs this month! :D

Hey guys i wanted to do something fun and just let you guys in on my top ten favorite songs right now including reggae! :D



Slightly Stoopid: I would do for you




Secondhand Serenade- Take me with you





A Day To Remember: You had me at hello



JJ-Still



Auburn- Perfect two



Kanye West- Mercy



Dub FX- Made It




I hope you guys enjoy these songs as well ^_^

what i do NOT understand about boys!

The number one thing that i do not understand about guys is how they can say something that is so meaningful and yet act like it never meant anything at all. It is sad how hard it is to know when a guy is actually telling you the truth or not. I give credit to them because i know that some girls do this too but it seem like as if guys do it the most. I never understood how this is possible. It seem to me that honesty is dying down in both friendships and relationships. I never thought i would see the day when being treated like a princess would disappear.  I just hope that the girls who deserve a great man actually find one because it is getting harder.

Let's chat :)

Okay so I have a be kind MIA but im officially back :) So i wanted to share with you something great i discovered this weekend ^_^ i went to a concert with my best friend and we went to go see Kina Grannis. During this wonderful concert at the Ford Theater I feel in love with the opening act his name is Jesse but he goes by the name Imaginary Friend. He is an acoustic musician but his music is beyond wonderful! I hope you guys check him out on youtube!   

These are my two favorite songs 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PZRKE8L9TO4

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7nEDUcDZn8

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Don't close your eyes and jump off a bench.

This is just a sweet little advice :) I am all for doing things with out thinking about it, so basically a sick risk taker. However this week I am going to try and take my time on making decision and see the world unfold.

P.S

I am still working on my vlog SORRY! school is a bust lol 

Boy's excuses.

There are so many things that guys say in order to avoid relationships it is actually ridiculous! I was hanging out with one of my close friend this weekend and she was telling me what this guy she has been talking to for a while told her about their situation. He actually said that he did not want to commit to a relationship because he was afraid to hurt her in terms of being not being faithful.However they have been dating for 8 month and actually went official for about two months. Guy are funny! If your feelings have changed just be honest do not sugar coat it! Also girls do not think that he is being sweet because he is thinking about the long term hurt you might endure if he does mess up.....because it is COMPLETE BS! I was very upset when my friend told me this because it made me feel like as if the guy did not respect her enough to just tell her exactly how he felt. Boys use all sorts of excuses like "it's not you it's me" or "i just cannot commit right now" and then you turn around and they are dating someone else! HORRIBLE

Pending!!!!

I'm still working on my vlog but it will take me a while so starting tomorrow I'll go ahead and make other blogs :) sorry

Exciting!

Ima try to make a vlog!!!!!! I hope you guys enjoy! Hehe ^_^

10 things guys do NOT get about girls

In honor of Jenna Marbles ^_^

1) Why we like to take our time getting ready.....we like taking our time because it's like a ritual! We all have our own routine that helps us get read. It's like our zen time.

2) Why we hate being rushed.....we hate being rushed because your disrupting our mental state. Whatever we are doing it HOWEVER slow, let us be.

3) Why girls have do much stuff......we have soapy things because of YOU GUYS! We want to always look cute for you regardless if you care or not! We know you might not care but we still try so feel fucking special!

4) Why we complain about our feet hurting when we have heels on but we REFUSE to take them off! First of all have you ever tried taking heels off then trying to put them back on! IT HURTS LIKE A BI***, and heels are not like 5 bucks! We wear them until we feel like we got our money's worth.

5) Why we say one thing but mean another.....You see I am with you guys on this one, i think it is a stupid habit alot of our girls have, but don't blame us! ever since we were young we were taught to be complicated. We like to have the emotional upper-hand. We do it to purposely confuse you.

6) Why we are OBSESSED with our figure....You see guy we have it a bit harder socially than you lol, we are SOCIALLY expected to be as skinny as we can be and sadly its whirred in our heads (although i DON'T AGREE) it is what it is.

7) Why we take so long in the damn shower.....you see we have so much to do in there that it is not even funny! we have to shave all sorts of places and double and TRIPLE check to make sure we didn't miss a spot (even though we STILL get out with a random patch somewhere -__- ) and we have to make sure we are all clean and soft for you guys.

8) Why we take extreme measures to make sure our hair is healthy....DO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH SH** WE DO TO OUR HAIR to make it alllll pretty for you! trust it can kill our hair in seconds so don't get all crazy that we don't wash our hair everyday and what not.

9) Why we get all mad when you lay on our hair when we cuddle.....IT HUUURRRRRTTTTSSS!

10) why we look at you funny every time you ask us "Do you like that ;D )......cuz it sounds creepy and if you have to ask chances are your doing something weird and we DON'T like it. -_-

Heads up!

I have a great post coming your way about what boys JUST DON'T GET about girls. I hope you like it ^_^

GIRLS and gifts ;)

Hehehe quick tip ladies! Never be afraid to ask you boyfriend for a few gifts! My "boyfriend" works at Victoria's Secret and it is so much fun to get sexy little gifts that we could both share! Always be exciting with one another and do things that both of you will love. Do not be afraid to get creative and show each other that you are still physically interested, even more so when the relationship is passed 5 years lol.

Update update update!!!!!! ^_^

hey hey hey! The pics of a fantastic party! ^_^ hehe
It is from the 50's to 80's theme party ^_^ check out
all the fun outfits and decorations that we got and made ^_^

Did someone say peace and love?

Happy 50th birthday :)

Flash back :)

Let us have some good old drinks :)

Walking through time :)

Grease ^_^

yuuummmmm

let us party!

Time to grub!

80's cake decoration 

LET'S DANCE 

PARTY TIME!

My sis (left) as the 80's, Me (middle) as hippie and so is my best friend  (right) 

So tonight my family is throwing a double 50th birthday party for my aunts. We went crazy cuz the theme is from the 50th's-80's. I will be updating as much as i can with fun photos and decorations ^_^ i will share with you creative ideas for decorations that we have done here. it is going to be a wild night i hope you enjoy.

SORRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

so i know i said i had a great blog for you today...................but due to some issues i couldn't deliver. I AM SO SORRY! :(   But i promise ill have it in for you tomorrow :)

Almost forgot!

I almost forgot that i wanted to share with you something really fast :)
okay so i figured out my "friends with benefit" situation. I sadly did not take my own advice SMH, however, he and i are talking about taking our friendship to the next level! I'm very much excited and i hope all goes well!  <3

Check my post tomorrow NIGHT and you will like what you'll see ^_^

Heads up ^_^

I have an exciting new blog planned for tomorrow cant wait ^_^

Why girls hate each other!

I was looking at some videos by my Ultimate favorite Vlogger JENNA MARBLES and i came across this particular video about why girls hate each other! Watch it and I'm sure you will agree with her! I lovee how she talks about how girls are taught from birth to hate one another. I think it is ridiculous how girls hate each other! WHO GIVES A F*** if some girl is getting attention for being a "slut" or what-have-you. I think we should just allll mind our own damn business. CLICK on Jenna Marbles and tell me what you think!

Love love love!

Okay so here is my situation......I am currently involved in a relationship that is suppose to be strictly beneficial.....however, that never really works because either one or the other or both end up having feelings! I don't care how many of you girls say "Oh i can have a relationship that is only physical! no strings attached." NO! not possible! Anyways, my dilemma is that I like this guy now and i know he likes me to but lately he has been like totally ignoring me. I haven't talked to him for over a week (mind you our arrangement has been going on since the end of January!). So my advice to you is DON'T DO IT! no matter how stoned- cold-hearted you are SOMEONE WILL GET HURT! You're either in a relationship or not.... THAT'S IT. There shouldn't be an in between. ENOUGH SAID! 

CAN'T WAIT!!!!

I have something pretty cool prepared for tonight's blog!!!!!! I hope you enjoy :)

hey hey!

Hello ladies i went shopping today and bought LOTS  of cool stuff and im preparing a blog for it its ganna be fun i hope you guys like it! ^_^

IT IS TIME! :D

Well as all of you ladies know it is getting SUNNY HOT outside! haha I have been needing to gear up for the summer that is coming sooooo close! i have been online shopping and wanted to share with all of you ladies the things that i am sooo interested to buy. I hope you guys like like!!!!!!

The outfit that started my shopping crave!  :)

http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/index.jsp

http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/index.jsp


These two outfits are perfect for looking absolutly AMAZING at the beach ;)  

http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/index.jsp

http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/index.jsp

OMG these next two outfits are my goal! This weekend i am on a mission :) and i would love to share it with all of you! 

http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/index.jsp

http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/index.jsp





These outfits just keep getting better and better ^_^ 







I am going to the mall to start my shopping and i will be
picking up pointers to share with you ladies :)

Time for a change!

Hello everyone! I like talking about girls and relationships, but I feel like it is time to switch it up a bit ^_^
I am going to get a little more fun a creative with my blogs and i hope you enjoy them! I have something fun for you tomorrow and i really hope you enjoy it! SO LOOK AT MY POST TOMORROW AND ENJOY!  <3

Ten things i hate about girls!

#1. Looking at their significant other's PHONE, EMAIL, FACEBOOK...etc!
#2. Overreacting about insignificant things.
#3. Complaining about appearance when they really DON'T need too.
#4. Girls who seek attention when they already have the whole world looking at them!
#5. Girls who ignore a situation in the relationship and don't COMMUNICATE!
#6. Girls who accuse their significant other without any logical proof!
#7. Girls who can not have a decent conversations.
#8. Girls who wear too much make-up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
#9. Girls who try too hard to fit in.
#10. Girls who don't understand the concept of a two person relationship. -___-

Family is important

One major factor of a relationship is the other persons family! 90% of the time, if you don't get along with your boyfriend/girlfriend's family, your relationship WILL NOT WORK! Do not try to change yourself to please the other person's family if it means changing your happiness. Sometimes it just means that that person might not be the one for you! It is hard at times but family is important and you know you want someone who can fit with your family. 

These pictures shows a glimpse of my family and my happiness. 

My brother and I. <3

Me and my favorite cousin of all time!

My cousins and I.

My Sister <3

                                                                   

Entire family. 

More cousins. 

My Nephew <3333

hi!

I need a break from all the craziness!!!!!!!!!!! Its so important to remember that you need some time to yourself!

I'll update more tomorrow! Off to go bowling I'll dish for you guys later!   <3

Guilty!

Okay, so tell me why guys who have girlfriends hit on girls who KNOW they have girlfriends AND that girl still falls For him! Ladies I know it hard because I'm stuck in that situation too! However, you don't want to be the reason for That relationship to fail! If things are meant to happen then they will happen. Have a little bit of faith and believe In chance. Don't downsize yourself because each girl is worth so much! Set limits and teach guys respect towards you.

Lets hear some music! :)

No matter what type of music any girl is into WE ALWAYS PUT MEANING INTO THEM. None the less, they are so important to us that we almost depend on them in order to let out what we are felling at the time.

Here are my top Ten right now i hope you enjoy!


1)


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cItHOl5LRWg


2)
)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=upnTg2GPgTM


3)


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1M3LUhnj0AE


4)


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HrWnfx8uRPw&ob=av3e


5)


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4XJxFAoiWSY


6)


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uZep1pIePWg


7)


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ojg4C0OMYLI


8)


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=psdJcrNda84

9)


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ypgXMcQNpdM

10)


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gH2efAcmBQM&ob=av2e